Van vs SUV | DIY Divas
In the last 5 years, we’ve owned minivans, large SUVs, mid-sized SUVs, and even a 6-passenger full-sized pick-up trying to find the best fit for our family of 6 and our lifestyle. It’s a real debate among America’s parents. Here’s a list of criteria that were important to our family and hopefully they can help you make an informed choice. Let’s break it down and explain why we think the Odyssey or Pilot meet the criteria best.
As a mom of 4 young kids, who has owned BOTH types of vehicles to haul the kids around in, I know a thing or two about vans vs SUVs and I’ve made my choice – it might surprise you.
In the last 5 years, we’ve owned minivans, large SUVs, mid-sized SUVs, and even a 6-passenger full-sized pick-up trying to find the best fit for our family of 6 and our lifestyle. We’ve gravitated towards a minivan or mid-sized SUV and have been specifically impressed by the Honda Odyssey and Honda Pilot, but why? It’s a real debate among America’s parents. Here’s a list of criteria that were important to our family and hopefully they can help you make an informed choice. Let’s break it down and explain why we think the Odyssey or Pilot meet the criteria best.
1. Affordability
Winner – Both
We like to keep car buying costs as low as possible since we have a large family. I mean, this entire blog is about saving money by DIYing. The Pilot and Odyssey are very similarly priced with the pilot being just a little more, and of course the package you get will affect the end price.

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2. Fuel Efficiency
Winner – Both
These are relatively fuel efficient vehicles, especially for a family vehicle. Between the Pilot and the Odyssey there isn’t much of a difference. It’s when you start looking at the large SUVs that you will find a true gas guzzler which is why we stay away from those. Again, we try to keep all costs down with a large family.
3. AWD or 4WD
Winner – Pilot
AWD or 4WD is really important to us since we live in Utah. There are some vans out there that offer AWD (Toyota Sienna), but we have always felt the AWD coupled with the higher ground clearance of an SUV is a better package.

4. Space for a family of 6
Winner – Odyssey
The Odyssey wins here, but the Pilot takes a very close second. Leg room in the van is quite spacious in the middle row and 3rd row. I’m not tall at only 5’2″, but my 6′ husband fits comfortably in the back as well.






5. Functionality for Toddlers and Kids
Winner – Odyssey
Notice the height differences of the handles on the Pilot and Odyssey. The van’s handle is much lower than the pilot’s which makes it easy for kids to grab – not that they really need to since mom or dad can automatically open them with their keys. Automatic doors are my favorite feature in a van. This convenience alone could cause me to buy a van.




6. Maneuverability
Winner – Pilot
The minivan is a little longer in the wheelbase and body, (18″ in fact) making it just a little more difficult to maneuver in parking lots as compared to the Pilot. The Pilot is shorter in wheelbase and overall body length, which makes it, in our opinion, noticeably easier to maneuver in parking lots. This of course isn’t always a good thing since you loose a little bit of trunk space and leg room in the Pilot verses the Odyssey.
7. Sound System Worthy of JT
Winner – Pilot
This was a close one and maybe the two vehicles are on slightly different schedules for updates, but the pilot felt like it was a little ahead of the game. To help keep my youth, I never overlook a good sound system, display, and bluetooth capabilities. Honestly, I can’t complain about either one of these two cars capabilities, they are both excellent.


8. Towing Capabilities
Winner – Pilot
Although we have seen minivans towing trailers, I’ve often wondered if that hitch was originally installed for use as a receiver style bike rack and is now being used beyond its intended purpose (Quick Side Note: There are a lot of loading options for hitches out there. Make sure you get professional advice if you don’t know which hitch fits your vehicle or your needs). Both vehicles are capable of towing, 3500 lbs for the van and up to 5000 lbs for the Pilot. The suspension of the pilot seems to handle the trailer tongue weight better than the Odyssey.

9. Cargo
Winner – Odyssey
Not surprisingly, the van wins this one hands down. Simply looking at the lift gate openings we can see a huge difference in size. The van has space for large objects like baseball gear, bulk food from Costco, and luggage. You will need to lay down seats in the pilot to get the same affect.

10. Cool Features
Winner – Odyssey
If you are a road tripper, the van has more than enough cup holders, a small cool box for drinks, and a vacuum for inevitable crumbs. What more could you ask for? So maybe, just maybe the Pilot isn’t as cool as the van at this point.
Conclusion
Winner – Pilot
For us, this is what ultimately swayed us towards the Pilot:
1. AWD and higher ground clearance for Utah’s snowy weather.
2. Better maneuverability. Since most of our driving consists of running errands and hauling kids to/from school and their activities, maneuverability in parking lots and tight spaces is crucial.
3. Option to tow is important for our lifestyle and many DIY projects.
4. The Pilot doors are lightweight and swing easily. The Odyssey’s sliding door is truly awesome, but our kids are all starting to get older so they can open the doors by themselves.
5. We love the look of the Pilot over the Odyssey. I know this wasn’t one of our criteria for choosing between the two, but ultimately, it did make the decision easier.
3 comment(s) so far on Van vs SUV | DIY Divas
I finally convinced my wife to go with an Odyssey over an SUV…. She is wishing she would have done it sooner!! The automatic doors on the Odyssey won it for her!
Right?! How amazing are automatic sliding doors when you’ve got a handful of anxious kids who throw doors open a little too haphazardly. No more door dings!
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